Since March of 2020 I have seen much turmoil in The Unites States and I have looked for ways to turn it around. I have seen so much hate and vitriol that I questioned my spirituality and my messages. I have experienced name calling as I continue to fundraise for The American Cancer Society Relay For Life. I have had a difficult time finding full time employment. Through it all I continue to stay focused and connected to GOD knowing that there are better days ahead and all I need to do is turn it around. I know that one way to turn it around is to remember that we are all divine children of GOD and GOD wants us to prosper so we can prosper others. If we are to turn it around we must put our differences aside and do what is best for our communities. One great way to help build and strengthen our communities is to be of service and value to one another. If you get the chance to support a local business or a charity take that opportunity as it will open up channels to receive. A key way to turn it around is to realize that we all bleed the same.
Once we realize that we are more alike than we are different we can awaken spiritually and begin to help one another to turn it around. Now is the time to tap into our inner divinity and follow our purpose so we can grow personally, professionally, and spiritually. Now is our chance to heal the world and understand that we have a responsibility to think globally and act locally.
As we begin to heal the world we heal ourselves as we find that when we are of value and service that we turn things around. Instead of judging people look for the goo in them and applaud those who are making a difference. The time is now to use your talents for good to turn things around. If you begin to look at things differently they will change and you will be able to move forward in a positive direction of your goals. I have learned to focus on the good and to take the bad in stride for GOD never gives you anything you can’t handle. I have come to understand that if GOD brought you to it GOD will bring your through it.
GOD will make a way for you to turn it around. You simply need to be tuned in to receive and act upon the messages that are being given to you. The messages come in all forms so be aware and be awake so that you can act upon them accordingly. Remember there is always a solution to the challenges that are being put into our lives. Many times it is simply in stepping back and finding a way to turn it around that allows us to make the mind, body, soul connection to create the life we desire. Now is your time to turn it around.
Yesterday (8/22/2017) I encountered a situation that got me to asking why the hate? Here I was reaching out to a business owner, Mike Artz of Collectables in Hobart, Indiana and this was his response via a Facebook. Wouldn’t it have made more sense for him to simply write thank you for reaching out to me I wish you much luck in your effort however at this time I am unable to support your project. Think about how you are responding to people and it will tell you why you may be struggling in your business. If this is how he responded to me how many other people has he responded to in this manner and how many of them have not done business with him and share their negative experience with others. In today’s marketplace it is imperative to be nice in all encounters so that people are moved to do business with you. At the end of the day the only thing that endures is your character.
He obviously forgot the first adage of business that Kindness Counts. I simply did what I have been doing for over 40 years and asked a business owner for support of a charitable cause. I never expected this type of response. This only goes to show us that our marketplace needs to be taught compassion.
Now think about it the next time someone approaches you for support because you never know the reach that person has and how they can impact your business. In this case all the accolades that Mike Artz may have built up are gone because he will never see my business and those that read this article may think twice about doing business with him.
As an experienced marketing and public relations consultant the 1st thing I teach my clients is to be kind in all that they do as you never know how that kindness will be returned. Imagine if Mike Artz had been kind in saying no I may have still recommended that my colleagues who collect sports and pop culture memorabilia contact him to see what he is selling. The lesson to take from today is that all it takes is one oh crap to ruin a thousand accolades.
As someone who is committed to being of service and value to others I have come to realize that most people suck. The answer why most people suck is that they feel entitled and have lost respect for those around them. I have come into contact with many people who simply suck the literal positivism right out of your soul as they will make arrangements with you and then not show up. When they are called out about it will say oh I forgot or something came up. These same people will then wonder why what they are doing in their personal, professional, and spiritual life is not working. I recently offered someone an opportunity to have items at no charge for them to use in their non-profit endeavors they said oh I will meet you at a certain time and a certain place. I showed up and waited for 2 hours and then left and messaged them only to get the response of oh I forgot. How do you forget when I spoke to you an hour before we were supposed to meet? How about having to chase people down for money they owe for services that you performed. I have had a couple of people even not pay me claiming we didn’t have an agreement. Come on people what happened to being impeccable with your word?
How do you know I am lying? My lips are moving? As I sat and watched President Donald Trump encourage people to manufacture in America buy American made products I thought wow how can he do this when his clothing lines are manufactured in Bangladesh, China, and Mexico. To me this put a real damper in his credibility. I did not vote for President Donald Trump or Hillary Clinton as I voted for The Libertarian Candidate. After watching president Donald Trump campaign and gain election and then serve for the first 100 days I begin to think about my own credibility and the credibility of others. I realized that it is important to be impeccable with your word and to make sure that you are making decisions that are truly inline with your core values because at the end of the day the only thing that endures is your character. As an entrepreneur, marketing director, or non-profit leader it is important to be seen as credible is all aspects of your business for people do business and support those they know, like, and trust. If you are just making a sales pitch to generate money and do not truly believe in what you are marketing you will have some success but it will be fleeting and eventually your credibility will be damaged and your ability to generate revenue and strengthen your brand will be challenging. When you begin to compromise your credibility for profits you begin to lose and eventually the damage that is done is irreversible. Think about your credibility when you advertise and what you promise for there will come a time that you will have to deliver on those promises.
As a business adviser I have always taught the entrepreneurs that utilize my service the importance of making charitable donations be them monetary or in-kind. When you support charities and donate money or good and service you can implement a strategic marketing plan that will allow you to support the community and also turn a profit. One of the best advertisement ideas that I came up with was over 20 years when I asked a local restaurant to host a charity night to raise money for The Coral Springs Jaycees Spreading The Joy Program, which provided Thanksgiving Baskets and a Children’s Shopping Spree for families in need. The restaurant asked what is in it for me and I explained that by donating 20% of his sales for one night he would attract people who wouldn’t normally come to the restaurant and have an opportunity to turn them into regular customers. He was hesitant at first but agreed and that first give back night raised $189 for the project. Meaning that we brought in bout $1,000 worth of business on that night not to mention the amount of people who became regular customers. Since my first give back night I have seen many restaurants adopt this concept and have much success because it creates a win-win situation for all parties involved. When you have a giving plan it will turn into profit over time as people like to do business with those they perceive to be giving back to the community. 
If you are a frequent reader of this blog you know how deep my passion runs for helping those touched by cancer through my involvement with Relay For Life. I do my best to share Relay with as many people as I can especially businesses that can use cause marketing as a strategy to acquire customers and retain customers. I have partnered with many business like The Tijuana Flats in Tamarac, FL, The Chuck E. Cheese’s in Sunrise, and Skyline Chili in Sunrise, FL to do fundraisers and I have been very successful in bringing people to these establishments who normally would not have gone. As a result several of those involved in Relay have become regular customers at these establishments. I have had mush success with those who understand the importance of cause marketing. The key is to partner with a cause that you are passionate about and then leverage your involvement by mentioning it in advertising, through your social media, and in your media releases. The idea is that you never know who may come into your business because of your support of a cause.
I went to a McDonald’s located Nob Hill Road and Sunset Strip yesterday (4/1/2017) to seek support of Relay For Life and the manager told me you have to call the owner but didn’t have the owner’s number. I thought here is someone who is supposed to be looking out for the best interest of The McDonald’s franchise and should be astute enough to understand the importance of cause marketing. The interesting part of the interaction was that I was going to place and order but because of the manager’s attitude and lack of information to give me to contact the owner I left and went to SUBWAY and bought my meal there as they have supported Relay For Life. Think about it and do the math I would have sent about $8- $10 at McDonald’s but because of the manager’s lack of understanding of the importance of cause marketing another business received my business. The reason I share this with you is to show you that you must empower your managers to make some decisions when it comes to cause marketing because you may be leaving money on the table because of their lack of understanding the importance of cause marketing. $8-10 may not seek like a lot of money to be walking out the door but think about it how many people will see this story and not go to that McDonald’s and do you think I will be going back to patronize that location? 
Today’s entry is inspired by Walk Out On Cancer Day. I went to The Starbucks on University Drive North of Oakland Park Boulevard at 12 PM expecting many of my fellow Relay For Life Participants to join me in walking out on cancer, however it turned out I was the only one who showed up. I decided to walk out and collect donations. As a result I stopped into Hooters and The GM said I could collect in the restaurant so I did. This small change really got me to thinking about how many times you have to make changes and adapt to the situation at hand in you business life and personal life. In business things happen that we can not control thus we must be able to think outside the box and change on the fly. In every situation there is a positive solution if you think creatively as was the case was today. I wanted people to join me but they didn’t so I simply went an walked out on cancer on my own and found people to put donations into the collection canister. As I walked I stopped at local businesses along the way and gave them brochures some fundraising fliers. I began to implement my 3 foot rule where if someone was within 3 feet of me I spoke to them about what I was doing. This type of advertising and marketing led to many people making a $1 or $5 donation. It also led me to making a contact with a photographer and videographer that could utilize my talents as an emcee, voice over talent, or business coach. In aligning yourself with a charity you can open many doors to help your business. In being willing to change on the fly and adapt and overcome you will see that you have more success.
